#3: Sometimes, It Really Is Just About The Sex
The best sex of my life was with a casual hookup who moved to London a few years ago. I have cheated to be with him. I feel like he’s someone grandfathered into my life. I know we’ll never have a relationship because of the distance, and I’m pretty sure he’s cheated on a girlfriend to be with me. So even though I know it’s not rational, I feel like it doesn’t count.
Besides, I barely liked the London dude. Since I had no feelings for him besides the physical attraction, it didn’t feel like a betrayal in the same way it might have if I truly had strong feelings for him.