#3. She Has An Open-Ear Policy
“Guys are often stereotyped as the heartless, selfish pricks who don’t listen. Yeah, that’s been me. And it’s also been her. It’s a case-by-case basis. My last girlfriend — we broke up a few months back — would portray herself as the victim in every circumstance while proceeding to bitch about how the world was against her. Maybe she had some mental problems (whenever I brought up seeing a therapist it lead to a nasty fight, so I stopped), but she wouldn’t listen to what I had to say when she was convinced she was dealt a shitty hand.”
—Rob C., NY, NY
#4. She’s Hornier Than Me
“I have a voracious sexual appetite. I don’t expect every woman to share my love or need of sex, but the one that does is the one for me. Currently I’ve yet to find someone off of a Tinder one-night stand that can match me. (Truth be told, those normally last two or three times before they fizzle, so I get decent mileage out of swiping right.) I understand that we’re all human beings and our bodies work differently and we have stresses and troubles and blah blah blah. But, for me, I need a partner who’ll give it up often. Like, daily. Go down on me. Talk dirty to me. Find ways to keep it fun. I’ll return the favor. Kinky sex just happens to top the list — stimulating conversation is a close second.”
—Shelton W., Boca Raton, FL
Next: Solid Communication Skills and She’s An Adventurer (Inside Of The Bedroom and Out)
