TIP #2: DON’T BE A DICK
Going through a breakup is no excuse for you or your ex to behave like assh*les. No matter who did what to whom, conduct yourself with compassion, kindness, and respect. It’s just good karma — but also, the less angry your ex is at you, the more likely she is to react maturely when you ask her to give up the nicest piece of jewelry she owns.