#2. She’s worried she’s being used for sex.
If you ended up having sex on the first or second date, she might be pulling back now because she’s afraid you don’t really care about her. Sound kinda crazy? Maybe it is. But guys can be stupid dicks, which is why a lot of them still immediately categorize women who sleep with them on the first or second date as nothing more than a potential friend with benefits. So she’s just trying to figure out if you’re that kind of stupid dick.
Your play: Spend time with her not in your bed, and she’ll quickly start thinking about getting back into your bed.
#3. Something weird happened last time.
Just because you were naked together doesn’t mean you know each other, and the earlier you do the deed, the more chances there are for serious miscommunications to occur. She may have been freaked out because your dirty talk went overboard. She may have been embarrassed by something you may not have even noticed. Or maybe she wasn’t exactly impressed with your jackhammer sex skills.
Your play: It’s all right to ask — once — if anything happened last time that she’d like to discuss. After that, drop it and try to think back to what could have set her off. We’re not asking you to play mindreader, but letting her know you’ve thought about it can help her open up.
